What matters is spreading your message to help others heal. Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do in life, and also the most rewarding. When you hold a grudge on someone for years. You want to inflict pain on someone however, no matter how they treated you, pay back will come to them years later without you having anything to do with it. Forgive them in the time you are alive since you don't have a guarantee for tomorrow. You will a new freedom lifted from your soul.