The whole self image is stuck on the high pedastal of what they think life should be. In actuality, the life we see is all in the mirror and in the mind of honesty to yourself. You are right there. Explore yourself to answer many questions. Through time and experiences your self image will develop. Spending time by yourself seems as a lonely path yet the still voice will come to you.
Delegate quiet times in order to focus. With all of this busyness it all seems to blur together and time goes so fast. Years go by like a flash. Each day, cherish the opportunity to get to know yourself and serve others. The challenging times tells us who we are by the response given. Be willing to keep an open mind in asking more questions instead of only accepting what you are told. The active mind is one of the best decision you will make.