As the icons of our generations have decided to be different in their own special way. Ask yourself, what are you contributing to the world? What is your legacy leaving behind? What are you going to invest in with your time? Even the Warren Buffet has said Time is the most expensive investment and can never purchase despite him generating 100 billion dollars.Focus on what is most important in your life. What you will accept and others you choose to move on in a better path.
Give From Your Heart To Others Who Least Expect It
Make it a part of your life to give a certain portion of your work to others who least expect and appreciate you. One time I was in a laundromat and looked at a bulletin board. I look at where I can help others by reading it and how we can collaborate. I saw a flyer of this lady who went through chemo and were looking for ways to raise funds for pay for the medical debt. When the auction was the same day I looked at the flyer and had already taken place. I thought, hey, why not call this number and see when I help this family. They were not expecting it. I said to them, my community came to help me when I least expected it in helping my family. I am truly grateful for this in taking care of the funeral of my step dad. Because of them, it inspired me to give back even more. There is no way I could repay them back for what they did.
When you give you see this pure joy in their facial expression. It builds a lifetime of memories. Give with a pure heart instead of only in what you will get in return even though it will always return back in some way back in due time.
Build Up Your People Around You
Tell the people in your network what they are good at. Building trust is so important. You never know, you could be in their place at one time or another. Another is offer to a resource to others in need before you ask for anything. It is more important to be a solution first. It is the last memory in which is more powerful in the long run.
Create the touching Stories from the people who are inspired by you
There will always be naysayers. Just because those people around you in public don't value what you do as the average, that is their perception, not yours. Keep on spreading what is in you to others. The world needs you to be the voice of healing for others. I choose to be the voice of others in where they need to see and hear what I have in offering. I care to see you get up instead of staying. Own what is in you and project the image from soul.
Be A Star By Choice
Do your best every day. Times can get challenging. It is in those times of when it shows who you are. When everyone else is slacking, put in the work and help others along with the way. You will have a much stronger platform. Show others you appreciate what they do. Everyone wants to be shown appreciation. Be the one who choose to outperform your peers.
Keep The Belief In What You Do - Be Patient
Even when no one shows up to what you are building, keep on believing in what you are doing. Freedom of speech is key to human life. We are here to a spread positive mindset. What is the one thing in which will be your foundation. Understand what you are building is more then yourself. This is the voice of action others will see over time. Dedicate your life.
Focus on Achieving What You Set Your Mind To Instead Of Can't
What benefit does it help you or anyone else to focus on what you can't do. It doesn't serve anything. Train your mind to find more and more ways to get to what you desire. What is the point of measuring everyone else when they aren't paying your bills. Measure your own self, look in the mirror. This is the one who is in charge of your own life not anyone else. Get up and do what you need to in order to have the life you have earned over the decades of work. No one owes you anything since you have so much more to do. Serving more people is where your quality of life will come.
Take Charge Of Your Own Emotions Or They Will Control You
There are things to be very angry about in certain times. It is better to silence yourself and hold back. You may say things in which you wish you never did. We all have. The main thing is taking charge of your own actions and what you say. Ask yourself, Is this worth doing in the long term? Will you have criminal charges because you couldn't control your actions? Your freedom is worth more then to have someone else control you and sometimes they will unknowingly. Work on seeing what is beyond the issue by you seeing a better future with every day making effort to overcome the situations you no longer will deal with. Taking ownership on your actions is key to having a better life instead of regret in which there is nothing you can do to take it back.
Re-evaluate Your life
The more funerals I go to the more I see how much my life has to change. The more you get ran over, the closer the time comes when you say no more. This is it. You have to shift into a better quality of life where you feel more fulfilled instead of only being used for meaningless labor to fulfill someone else's demands. Put your work into what you love and bring purpose to it. Share what you have to offer to your clients. You are worth the effort and time.
Use Negativity From Others As Your Fuel
People will tell you how you can't do this or do that. Really what matters is your setting your mind to it. They aren't paying your bills. Most of the time those people who are talking garbage to you aren't happy in their own life. By talking down to you it makes them feel better. It has nothing to do with you. It is their own perception. Develop your mind and the focus you have will go into where it needs to be in due time.