Focus on happiness even in the challenging times. I know how it is to wish you could spend more time with your family however, it order to get the results you have to be willing to put in the time and dedication. There are times of where i do miss my family since I work a lot. I do wish they would think as I do and join me however, they choose to think as they do. I can't make them do anything. It is up to their own personal choice. I can suggest in the way I see fit. Maybe some day they will finally understand.