So many people complain about their situation and have the mentality of a victim. I don't understand this when they could choose to be in the driverseat. How does complaining fix the issues? It doesn't and never will. When the people who you are around choose to be this way nothing changes. They choose to be unhappy and unfilled when they could switch it around. We deal with issues and how we view them is going to be more important part. Pick and choose the message you allow in your mind and everything else. Stay calm and look at your situation as a temporary. I know it is easy to get angry about where you are. When you shift how you look at life it will move in the choices you make.