You may not like where you are, physically, financially, spiritually, financially. The question is are you working toward where you desire most? Do you dislike the people around you because of how small they choose to think? Do those around you value you so little until they see you accomplish what they wish they could? Ask yourself the questions to honestly find the answer. When you feel you are progressing in the way you will love in the future from today looking in hindsight, your mind starts to shift. Give to others who are in need when you have things people need. When you see the pure joy they have in their eyes, the whole aura will change. Become a giver and your life will change instead of the average taker. Choose to be the person who is of high value and in time you will be an empire from this.
Plan For Your Future
I was looking at my retirement funds even though I am not planning on retiring since I love what i do. I want to achieve this as long as I physically can. I care about people and want as many people to have a great life. By planning for your retirement and we all have to plan ahead. By starting now. the better we are better off. If you wait the more you will wish you had started decades ago. Think about how can you make it happen then only focus on what you don't have. It is a huge shift. Save, invest and generate at least 200k and let it grow over the decades. You will thank yourself years from now.
Make Room For Current Memories
I recently went back to my old neighborhood I grew up in. There are so many memories I have had. Some good and others not very good. The process of learning is at every stage. The influence of each individual and or family is a totally big difference in how a home feels. Since my grandparents are getting to the point of where they need to have 24 hours assistence, we are having to look at retirement homes. I don't want my grandparents in a retirement because they desire to live the rest of their life the best as possible. They have outlived all of their family. It does show where there is a committed love it will last a lifetime. My grandparents have been married for 55 years. My grandpa loves my grandma with all of his being in taking care of her all these years. He is a u.s. army veteran. He still has his military gear from the 1940s. I had seen his horse riding gear for years and didn't know where it came from until he explained. I was astonished in the fact he still has it considering this was over 70 years ago.It is amazing in how much has has seen in his whole life up until today. Does it make you question the future in how things will change to create memories in your near future?
Your Future (Self-Examination)
I believe more people need to develop empathy. As you see people ahead of you and their own life as if you are them, you understand the progression it took to get to where they are. To ask the critical questions we have to ask ourselves. A couple of days ago, my grandpa had hip surgery at 91. He was down for 2 weeks before the surgery. He has always been a go-go personality. My grandpa loves my grandma with all of his being and would do anything for her within his own power. They have been married for 55 years. He has taken care of my grandma for years 24-7. My grandma has dementia and is 94. I respect my grandpa and is a army vetaran, and believes in my potential in all I do.
When you look at other people's lives, you have to ask yourself, How can I have a better life then this person in my very near future. I want to be independent as long as possible and enjoy life with great health, mobility, and correct cognitive function. How about you? What are you planning for your future?
Follow Your Purpose
Your purpose is waiting for you to seek it. In purpose you have the freedom to create the life you see yourself being in. Have your purpose be the rock within yourself. No matter how much people try to measure you up, don't pay attention. What matters is you push yourself since you know you have much more to offer every day. There are times of when you will have challenges through family, and other parts, remember it is only temporary. Your life is precious in the time you have to live. Create memories for others they will remember for a lifetime.
What Is Truly Revelant In Your Life?
With all of this noise and go, go, go, mentality without taking the time to sit back and critically think about life, we miss what is so important. I personally hardly see my own family and time has flown by so fast. My siblings were in grad school and now they are in college within a flash of time. Take time to examine yourself and your values in what you see as life. What do you want in your life? You will never ever get the time back for every minute is gone as it passes.Tune out the news. 98% of what they talk about is negative. Do you really need this to feed into your subconscience? No, you can have a better life instead of the one others are feeding your mind into. It is your choice in showing what your values are.
Measure Yourself Instead Of Only Everyone Else
I see so many people measuring others up in material possessions. Having material possession can be a good thing depending on how they are applied. The mindset around acquiring the material possessions is more important. Having the mindset to get back all you have worked for is the foundation of everything so when all you have is taken away is no big deal. Personal connections and the skills are best investment you can make and the minset of where you can bring high value. The correct management of everything you have in time and materials is the skill you want to develop and build along with. When challenging times happen you will be ready as we all know there are cycles in time. Everyone has room to improve so take respondsibility today. Your life will change completely when you compete with yourself.
Be Open Minded/See Others As Individuals
Many people like to put others in a box and don't give others a chance to answer. The opinions each individuals says is a view on who they are. Giving others an opportunity to speak and voice who they are will create a better society where we feel we are heard. Every human wants to feel significant no matter where they are from. The favoritism toward certain things may surprise you when you least expect it. Show love and attention to what they are saying. By doing this we feel more connection all over.
Refocusing On What Matters
There are times of when certain people have major conflicts. You may want to do certain things in which you will regret for the long term even though in the moment it seems gratifying. Even in the effect of mental torement, You have to realize what you want to do in a negative outcome isn't worth your time or your energy. Why not focus on doing what you love instead what you don't want.Why not put your focus on what you and where you want to be.
Reflection On The Happy Moments
Flashbacks have been coming to me lately of my step dad and old high school friend who have since passed away. We shared many great memories over the years. Time goes by so fast. Faster then we think. When you see so many people passing away, it makes you think about your own mortality. I am grateful to be alive and have anoter opportunity to help others in their time of need. I appreciate for everyone who has given me the open door in creating an experience for you. Life is meant to collect a lifetime of memories in which will be with you and all over your loved ones.