So many people complain about their situation and have the mentality of a victim. I don't understand this when they could choose to be in the driverseat. How does complaining fix the issues? It doesn't and never will. When the people who you are around choose to be this way nothing changes. They choose to be unhappy and unfilled when they could switch it around. We deal with issues and how we view them is going to be more important part. Pick and choose the message you allow in your mind and everything else. Stay calm and look at your situation as a temporary. I know it is easy to get angry about where you are. When you shift how you look at life it will move in the choices you make.
Is This The Right Emotion You Want to Transmit?
Many times others have responded to the responses of others. Ask yourself, Does the emotion you project in how and what you say honestly worth it? There are many times I don't say what I have on my mind because I have to ask myself, is the really worth saying? Once it is said, there is no turning back. I was recently in a meeting and the big part of the neighborhood was there.
I waited for the right time patiently. When I asked the question, the answer was devaluing. Either way, there are better opportunities. I didn't reply back I am here to be respected in the community and build over the years.
Before hand, the lady next me, was so angry and took it out on a certain person in charge. I wanted nothing to do with this and didn't know this lady was going to go off. This lady gave me her business card. Since she wasn't professional in the way she approached certain things, I didn't want to do business with her. Keeping your composure is a big part in others wanting to do business with you and associate with you. I understand there ware times of where yes you want to lash out. However is it really worth issues and loss in relationships over the long term, no.
Own Up To Your Mistakes
Everyone has made mistakes including myself. When you make a mistake own up to it and authentically appologize. No one likes to glorify their mistakes. For many years, growing up I didn't take care of my health the way I needed to.
Now I am getting back on track since I want to have the best like I can so I can have more ability to impact others. I may not having children in my lifetime, however I want to show younger people what I have learned thinking ahead for them so they don't have to go through what I did. I talk to the younger people so they will have a better life and different perspective.
Another mistake I made was not investing enough and applying myself right after I got out of high school. I had to forgive so many people including my father who was abusive growing up. Why let someone else have control over you when the ball is in your own court. When you choose to let go so much weight will be off of your whole being.
Listen Closely To Those Who Benefit You
My grandpa has always spoken to me about my health and being the best I can. He is a us army veteran, born and raised on a farm. He has always worked hard all of his life. My grandpa has helped our family so much over all these years. Over 35 years, he has and is dedicated to family. I appreciate who he is and what he has done. I wish I could have spent more time with him and my grandma. I have had to work so many hours to make things happen.
It is time to reformulate my life to have more time to spend with my family. My grandpa understands I have to work in order to live, however there comes a time of where there must be a balance of peace and tranquality versus all of the go, go, go. More thought needs to be in the mind of society instead in mentality of a machine.
Study Patterns Of Human Thoughts
As I watch each period of time, in every decade perception changes. In the earlier ages, it is about exploring, being loud, learning, speaking, developing emotional normalities. With each period of time, people evolve as experiencing more. The social form can be in peer pressure however developing critical thinking to be on their own is so important. Ideally, with time you experience more and become better equipped.
The whole spectrum of life becomes apparent through seeing the cycle. No matter what cycle you are in making the most of it as valuable lessons are learned. Everyone can advance no matter what stage they are in. Take care of yourself since you are individual in charge of your health in which is everything to who you are.
Minimize Your Distractions
In day to day life, there can be so many distractions. Set boundries with others in order to be more efficient instead of occupied with other then what you need to get done. Quiet the noise, learn to focus in staying on task. Tell yourself, you will accomplish what you set your mind to. Make an interesting platform in what you are doing to keep it fresh. With adding a fresh platform it will sustain the energy and dedication instead of fizzing out. By minimizing your distractions you become more effective with faster results. In the whole scheme of things, you will have more gratification in knowing you are effective.
Work And Dedication/ No Self entitlement
No one owes you anything. I never understood this from any generation since all generations will have to earn what they have. It can take years to accomplish what you are seeking. There is no overnight success. It is all an illusion. Others have to see you are taking what you are doing seriously. When they don't see you doing it day in and day out, others start to question you. Showing dedication and work into what you love is so important. Plus it creates discipline for you and others around you.
What are you serious about enough to put in the time and work?
Set The Atmosphere Around You By Your Attitude
I was recently in a restaurant. There was a great server who was willing to take care of me, asked if I needed refills, and perceived to have a positive attitude in service. She is willing to accomodate what I needed in special requests easily since she has an attention to detail. I didn't want half of the things on the menu yet she didn't overcharge me for all the items I didn't want. I willingly tipped this person higher. You can tell when people choose to work and be of a great service compared to taking a long time to get back to customers. When people feel important they want to be apart of it.
In the same restaurant, another server was avoiding me, taking a long time to see how I am doing, never asked me if I needed a refill. The place was not busy, This server overcharged me for items I didn't want nor received. When you receive service like this it makes me no want to return back since the whole experience of no getting for all I purchased for.
Stay with the quality you deserve. You vote with your money.
Help Others In Need
Yesterday, I was in a town and saw a young person stranded since their vehicle broke down. There were so many vehicles behind her. I parked in the near parking lot and went to her vehicle to help push it into a parking lot. I understand what it is like to be stranded in traffic since my vehicle broke down. No one came to help me in that time.Why not give what I didn't receive to someone else. It is about being of service in a time of where others need. It is funny when one person comes to help others will join. This is the power of unity as we team up together.
Stop Talking About It. Do It Yourself
There comes a time when enough is enough when you have had it and start to do what is needed. Many times other people want to sit around to do nothing important. You ask them to join in with you, they act like they want to, however, every single time when it comes to taking actions they don't want to. What is the point of saying you want to do something when you don't. If you actually wanted to you already would have done what you said. Why not, step and help others and be more productive instead of staring at your phone to complete nothing. Getting things done in the right way and effective is a completely different mindset. Which one are you? It is your choice.
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